The Psychology of success

At Hamlets Wealth Management we will also be teaching the psychology of success

  1. What stops us from moving forward? Taking action? Being our best?
  2. What controls and determines the quality of our lives
  3. Why we do what we do? What are the ultimate drives behind human action?

We will explain how fear plays a big part in holding us back to reaching an abundant state. Fear can destroy our psychology and immobilise us from taking action. We all experience fear in some context during our lives: Fear of rejection, fear of failure, fear of success (how can I handle the pressure and continue to deliver at a high level). Most of us feel a combination of fears which we will tackle with you before we get you to invest in your future.

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The secret will be learning how to use fear instead of it using you!

While we experience countless variations, there are two primary fears we beings share:

  • We are not enough
  • We won’t be loved

What controls and determines the quality of our lives

What controls our lives is the meanings we associate to the things in our lives, which are shaped by our own personal psychology and our world view.

All of us have a variety of emotions we consistently experience, and these emotions are driven by three forces that mould the meanings we take from those emotions: The primary patterns of emotion are called the TRIAD.


The source of ALL Emotion is a constellation of Three Forces:

Force 1 – How you use your body such as breath, posture and movement.

Force 2 – Whatever you focus on, you will feel.

Force 3 – As soon as we put words to an experience, it changes the meaning we experience.

The FOUR Primal Needs

During the consultancy we will discuss the four primal needs.

  1. Everybody needs stability about their basic necessities i.e. food, shelter and other material resources.
  2. People have a need to change their state, to exercise their body and emotions. Henceforth they seek variety through a number of means.
  3. Everybody needs to feel special and important in one way or another.
  4. Humans need to feel connected with someone or something – a person, an ideal, a value, a habit or sense of identity.

The TWO Spiritual needs

  1. Everything is either growing or dying – there is no third alternative. People are not spiritually satisfied unless their capacities are expanding.
  2. Contribution, we cannot be spiritually fulfilled unless we are contributing to others.


Contribution, Growth, Love/Connection, Significance, Uncertainty.

People find ways to meet these needs in positive and negative or neutral ways, but every person finds a way to meet them in some way.

Any activity, action or emotion that fulfils at least three needs at a high level becomes an addiction. In the same way people have positive, negative and neutral addictions.

The skill lies in finding a sustainable way to fulfil it, and in a way that gives more pleasure than pain.


Hamlet Wealth Management will run through an exercise to discover what needs are dictating your life, and, weather these are having a positive or negative affect on your lives. We will get to polarising what is limiting your success and how to change that so there is synergy between you and what we are looking to accomplish going forward.

The ultimate success formula

Gaining success is a sweet science and the good news is there is a formula to it! Success can be broken down into 5 simple steps. When you join the HHWM consultancy we will go into the steps in greater profundity. They are simply;

  1. Know your outcome (What will you achieve?)
  2. Reasons why? (You must have a reason for why)
  3. Taking MASSSIVE action (Just go for it!)
  4. Know what you are getting (What will the result be?)
  5. Change your approach (IF what you are doing is not working, adjust your approach)

At Hamlet Homes Wealth Management we understand in achieving success one must leave behind bad habits which we have allowed to limit our success throughout the years. It is often rituals which shape our lives and destiny, in order to cleanse the bad habits to gain freedom to a better way of living.

3 Steps to lasting change

There are three steps to lasting change, these are;

  • Leverage: Have a big enough reason to change.
  • Must: taking massive action to make the change and not stopping until you get there.
  • Interrupt the pattern: One must interrupt the pattern of negative rituals in order to getting lasting change.

Most people fail to achieve their goals in life for one simple reason: They never take the first step. There are five simple steps to tapping into the power of momentum.

  • Put yourself in ‘Peak State’ [Discuss further in programme]
  • Find your passion
  • Decide, Commit & Resolve
  • Take immediate, intelligent, consistent & Massive Action!
  • Be honest with yourself, i.e. check it, change it, re-engineer it, and reinforce it!

These are the 5 Driving Forces on THE SCIENCE OF MOMENTEUM..


An extraordinary life comes from an unrelenting commitment to focus on constant improvement in SEVEN areas of life:

  1. Physical body
  2. Emotions & Meanings
  3. Relationships
  4. Time
  5. Work/Career/Mission
  6. Finances
  7. Celebrate & Contribute Spiritual Sense

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While all seven areas of life are important, there is a hierarchy that creates peak performance and fulfilment. For example, if you fail to master your body – your capacity to maximise your health, vitality and energy- all the money, career success, or contribution in the world is worthless. You cant experience an extraordinary quality of life without the vehicle that’s going to help you create it. Or, if you spend your time trying to solve all your relationship problems, but you haven’t mastered your emotions, it’s a recipe for disaster. Without mastering meaning and emotion, you will always be at the mercy of lifes challenges. Having a firm grasp of your emotions frees you to be proactive rather than reactive to changes you face. Similarly, you must determine how you focus and spend your time in order to create a successful career. Once you’ve discovered how to add value in your work/career/mission, you can create a plan to grow your wealth. Spiritual growth and your capacity to celebrate and contribute is at the top because you can’t enjoy the fruits of your labour until you’ve sowed the right seeds!

This is not to say that a person can’t work on their finances and transform their body at the same time. Rather, it shows the importance and hierarchy of the core areas of life that are necessary to create a MAGNIFICENT experience of life.

If you feel you are now in a position in your life to STRIVE AND THRIVE and wish to couple self-improvement with property investment education then you have the opportunity to learn the best teachings from the BEST!

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Hamlets Wealth Management

T. 07949 990289
T. 01189 505660

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